不要期待，不要假想，
Bùyào qídài, bùyào jiǎxiǎng,
Don't go searching, don't fantasize.

不要強求，順其自然，
Bùyào qiǎngqiú, shùn qí zìrán,
Don't use force, let it flow with ease.

如果註定，便一定會發生。
Rúguǒ zhùdìng, biàn yīdìng huì fāshēng.
If it's meant to be, it will happen.

The above quote which appeared on my FB newsfeed reminded me of my fortune telling bamboo stick I got from the temple early last year.
Matrimony : Still immature.