Sunday, March 24, 2019

I came across two similar Facebook inspirational sharing.
A fame social activist put this in her page,

"I had to tell a 71 year old man he couldn’t work for us anymore.
We tried but it was too tough to justify him staying on. He wrote me this beautiful letter, which he emailed to me this morning. Who writes like this anymore? Very rarely.
I’m sad but determined to find him something else to do"
This part of his letter humbled me,
...Lastly, as have been mentioned earlier, I would be most grateful if you could kindly assist me to find another job such that with whatever meagre income that can be earned, will help keep my body and soul together.
2nd Story


A man who has been living on the streets for nine years has been found a home and job after a teenager spotted his note posted next to a bus stop.

Charlotte Howard, 16, saw the note on the Hastings bus stop and decided to post an appeal on social media.
She has so far raised £1,000 and found a caravan for Mr Johnson, who has also been offered a job as a handyman.

Mr Johnson's note read: "I will do a trial for free to show how I work. I don't take drugs or drink.
"I will also do dog walking/minding, window cleaning, shopping, gardening, car valeting/washing, housework, cooking..

"Anything to earn a living and make life seem worth living."

After seeing Charlotte's appeal Nelson Smith offered Mr Johnson a job and the pair are now working to set up a handyman business.
I've just watched HBO Red Channel's 'My husband has got depression'.


A Japanese film that depicts the mental illness very well.
Worth rewatching.

Friday, March 22, 2019

Her childish email reinforced my perception of her personality.
Her email resembled an ex-communicated friend who was a delusional schizophrenic.
I couldn't and shouldn't feed into her content anymore.

At first I thought a reply wasn't necessary but I don't want you to misunderstand my unresponsiveness.
For old time sake,  I shouldn't mind to take the time to assure you that all is good.
We are grown ups.

🙂 It's time to let go and move on.
Bye Mn
How could I have ignored the signs for so long?
Why was I hesitant to take a stance for so long?
I have bottled them up far too long.

Sunday, March 10, 2019

Been watching Netflix again,
"Live"
Their theme song "Carry Me" feels very close in proximity.

When you know it's not okay
and you know you're not to blame
Look inside your mind and try to find
this heart of mine
And you know it's just a dream
one you wished you'd never seen
Open up your eyes, it's still dark outside
Alone again tonight
You got the smile I wanna see
You got the heart to carry me
You got the smile I wanna see
You got the heart to carry me
And you try but it's too much
And hurting yourself is not enough
Think of everyone who has it worse than you
There is no curse on you
Think of everyone who has it worse than you
There is no curse on you
Won't you realize it's not that bad
And a chance to love is all you ever have
Tell him…


In After Life, Anne advised Tony,
"You are a good person. So, naturally, the things that you do are good.
You make the world a better place by just living."

On Children, the mother said, "Love yourself. There is always a way."

10 Habits of Highly Successful People With Bipolar Disorder

Taken from BpHope
#1 They’ve created their own treatment plan
Through trial and error, these folks have created a personalized treatment plan that works for them. For one person, focusing on therapy for the mind may work, while someone else is better treated with certain medication. All treatment—pharmacological, therapy and lifestyle—needs to be designed specifically for you.

#2 They rally a supportive team
First off, they are not afraid to ask for help and understand they need the assistance of others when they can’t help themselves. They know that support comes in many forms; perhaps they’ll join a support group, either online or in person. Successful people living with bipolar also nurture their support team—staying in contact, communicating and expressing deep appreciation for their help.

#3 They practice mindfulness
A meditation practice improves your ability to manage work, organize tasks and focus in stressful situations. Over the past decade, mindfulness meditation has been shown to improve a whole host of health and disease outcomes; new studies demonstrate what’s happening to the brain in order to produce these beneficial health effects. It shows that meditation reduces Interleukin-6, an inflammatory health biomarker, in high-stress adults.

#4 They know their triggers and have a plan
As with mania, knowing what stressors leave you vulnerable to depression can help prevent recurrences. Work-related stress, sleep disturbances and traumatic life events can all be triggers and having a plan to help prevent minor symptoms from turning into a full-blown episode is vital. Successful individuals have put together a comprehensive plan, usually with the help of their spouse and/or family. They understand how to recognize the beginnings of either depression or mania and what they will do in such cases.

#5 They have a healthy diet and exercise regularly
Whether they find it challenging or not, they know that having a healthy lifestyle—eating well and moving more—is a crucial complement to a treatment plan of medication to maintain mood stability. Studies now prove that people with bipolar disorder are more likely to have certain vitamin and mineral deficiencies, making a nutrient-dense diet all the more important.

#6 They have good sleep habits
For people living with bipolar, sleep is found to be a significant cause of stress. We know that sleep problems don’t just affect mood, they can also be the cause. People who are successful with their bipolar treatment plans know to keep a steady rhythm throughout their day…going to bed and rising the same time each day and following the same bedtime routine.

#7 They stick to a schedule/routine
The schedule itself is personalized to each individual but the point is they stick to their set routines—especially for the important aspects like their medication protocol, exercise, diet and sleep. They know that by doing something regularly, like brushing one’s teeth, it soon becomes second nature and doesn’t take willpower to stick to.

#8 They pay attention to their thoughts
They are aware of the loop that links bipolar depression, anxiety and negative thinking and work hard at breaking free of this; they learn to shift out of negative modes such as catastrophic escalation and pessimism and destructive self-talk and instead choose a more positive and practical outlook to almost every situation.

#9 They are grateful
They understand that gratitude has a strong association with well-being and that practicing this state of being has a positive influence on their mood, relationships, outlook, and overall happiness—all of which can protect against anxiety and depression. Some people have found it helpful to keep a daily journal and write what they are grateful for every day.

#10 They keep a journal
Whether it’s charting their moods, diets, exercise or even what they’re grateful for, the simple act of writing it down somewhere (or typing for that matter) does something to further instill the subject matter to memory. Besides its validating and therapeutic benefits, writing one’s thoughts down in a journal can be meditative as it forces one to think only of certain thoughts and not about everything at once.